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William (Billy) Joseph Becker
William (Billy) Joseph Becker, age 55, entered the world arriving as the end of the line of 11 children. Bill was honored to be the first child to depart the world, from that same line. Six weeks ago, before Bill received his final medical prognosis, he remarked to his siblings, that he felt badly he was the youngest of the family, as he would have to experience all of them pre-deceasing him, before he would take his turn. Bill just took his turn….and was first in the line!
Bill chose Wednesday, June 16, to leave his family, knowing that date is his Mother’s birthday and she would be the first to greet him after making the trek to heaven. He had just been handed the news of a rapidly spreading cancer six weeks earlier. He hadn’t had time to tackle his bucket list, as the disease overtook and weakened him much too rapidly.
Bill was born September 3, 1965, in Blue Earth, to Raymond and Joan (Bullerman) Becker. Coming home to the farm, he was greeted at the front door by his eight sisters, ready to spoil him and ensure that his chief responsibility in life involved smiling at them! His two brothers immediately prepared room for him on the tractor, as soon as he began to walk. Bill’s Mother doted on her baby his entire life. During the brief final six weeks of life he was given, those same eight sisters and two brothers alternated shifts night and day, to once again ease him through his final “chores”.
Bill spent his entire life working hard, long and proudly. His goal at the end of any given day, was to end it by sweating heavily and always smiling. Whether he was driving a combine cross country, landscaping, farming or working side by side with his brother, shingling farm buildings, he was smiling, talking and pretending he had more experience than his older siblings. Eventually, he did!
He is survived by his two brothers, Rick (Anne) Becker, Le Center, Donnie Becker, Easton; his eight sisters, Connie Sonnek (Monte Goldman), Minnesota Lake, Joyce (Carlton) Eastvold, Winnebago, Barb Grant (Gary Spatenka), Owatonna, Deb (Dave) Schmitt, Rochester, Shel Caldwell (Roger Illif) of Winnebago, MN, Karen (Bill) Schaible, Delavan, MN, Diane (Mark) Mensing, Blue Earth, Jackie (Chris) Guibert, Rochester; Diane’s son Josh Langley and granddaughter Lexi; Also, an entire Bible full of nieces and nephews and great-nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Ray (1999) and Joan Becker (2008). Also, preceding him in death, was his wife Diane (2012), who helped him move onto their own farm, to continue his chores; brothers-in-law: Steve Caldwell (2003), Arnie Sonnek (2010),
A Graveside Service for family and friends will be at OLMC Cemetery in Barber Twp, Faribault Co., MN, at 11:00 on August 7th, 2021. A Celebration of Life will be held at the original farm where Bill grew up, with his siblings following the service. He discussed being an active part of this celebration before he left, however, it appeared that his Mother was more excited to have him with her.
Bill often spoke of a nun, Sister Kent that he favored at his grade school, at Our Lady of Mount Carmel. Attending school daily was not his favorite past time, but he looked forward to seeing Sister Kent waiting for him, daily, outside , when he left school, just to say …. “Do not be afraid of tomorrow, because we know God is already here, waiting for you…..” Bill was never afraid of anything again. God and his Mother were both waiting for him on his Mother’s birthday.
Bruss-Heitner Funeral Home in Wells, MN is assisting the family. Online condolences can be left at brussheitner.com
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Dear Becker family,
You have my sincere sympathies. The loss of a sibling, and the youngest one at that, is truly difficult. Please know that you are in my prayers and thoughts! Much love, Joe and Jodi Schultz
So sorry for your loss, taking way to young.
My sympathy to all of you…..
To the entire Becker Family. I’m so sorry to hear about Billy. I have found memories of him and the family at the farm growing up!!! He will be truly missed. Never forget the memories and I will never forget his smile and his laugh. Love your cousin Pam
So sorry for the loss.
My sympathies to all the Becker family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. You are such a close knit family and I’m sure you all made it easier for Billy’s transition.
I have such fond memories of Billy..he always made me feel so special.!! You will be missed. My condolences to the family!!
So very sorry for your loss…you will be in our thoughts and prayers…The Children of Harold and Mary Voges…Connie, Howard, Lloyd, David, Carl, Amy, Nancy & Susie
My sincerest condolences to the Becker family. It is difficult to lose a sibling. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
So sorry for your loss
Bill was one of my favorite customers that I got to see daily and he will forever be missed specially that smile! RIP Bill
Our deepest sympathy and prayers are extended to all of Bill’s special family and loved ones. May precious memories surround you and ease your pain. “Go Rest High On That Mountain” Bill!! Your work on Earth is done!! You will be missed! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Our deepest sympathy to the Becker family. Hugs especially to Connie 🥲
Your family is precious to me and I pray for you as you celebrate Billy’s life until you meet him again on the other side:)
Beautifully written! Thank you for sharing Billy’s story. I do remember always seeing a smile a his face, that was Billy! His pain is over now and he is celebrating his reward in heaven with those who have gone before him! Imagine the birthday party he had with his mother yesterday! Sending prayers and hugs! So sorry for your loss! Love to all
Debbie and family. My deepest sympathy for your loss. May the memories be comfort to you.
My deepest sympathy to Billy’s family. It is so hard to lose a loved one. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers!!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. We pray you find comfort knowing he is in a better place 🙏
To all of you I send a really Big Virtual Hug!
I am so grateful for the last reunion when I was able to
spend time with Billy getting re-acquainted after so many years.
Yes, I remember his smile————-it was DYNAMIC!
I am grateful Billy suffers no more
but, I “feel for the pain” in your hearts!
My prayers are with you to help ease your sorrow/great loss.
I am also so very grateful you all were there for him as the “Great Love of God”
in your hearts was a huge blessing for him.
Time & distance has separated you from your baby brother
but, “Love lives-on” no matter what!
Please be grateful for the love of family that God has Blessed you with!
May you Celebrate Billy’s life & that God planned long ago Billy
would need each and every one of you as he made his journey to Heaven.
Be at PEACE because he is at Rest in the ARMS of Jesus and so many loved ones!
He is Happy! He is Complete & Total Joy!
May that comfort you all!
Love to each & every one of you from
across the miles that separate us!
God Bless,
Ann Gerbi (Sisser)/Little Falls
Sorry for your loss……R.I.P. Billy
My sympathy to all the Becker family, I have many fond childhood memories of running around with Billy. Ziggys pasture, clems pond bus no.2, rest in peace,Billy
We did not know Billy but reading his beautiful obituary, we wish we did. God bless all of you who mourn the loss of this beautiful soul. Your Mom and God have a new arrival who must be a gem.
To the Becker Family So sorry for your loss. It so hard to lose your little brother. Your family’s are in my thoughts and prayers
So sorry to hear of Bill’s passing – sympathies to your family. Kayla (Grupe) Westra
Sorry for your families loss prayers sent, we had some good times together we did. going to be missed by many.
I don’t know your brother but what a wonderful obituary! Your family sounds very loving and supportive! God bless his memory!
To the Becker Family…
We are so sorry for your loss. It is so hard to lose your ‘little brother’. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. That was a beautiful story about Billy! God Bless all of you!
Deb Dave and siblings, You have our sympathy for the loss of a great brother. As I was reading his obit my heart went out to you all. Losing a sibling is like losing a part of yourself. Their is a love contact that is very strong in feeling. Walt and I will say extra prayers for you all. Love and prayers Walt and Joyce.
We send our Deepest Sympathies to Billy’s Wonderful Sisters and Brothers and their families !! How all of your lives have changed in just a few short weeks. But he will live in your memories forever !! HUGS to ALL of YOU !!! Your Extended Family/Friends – Linda & Denny
My Deepest Sympathy to the entire Becker family.
To all the Becker Siblings my deepest sympathies. Was so sad to hear of Billy’s passing. Prayers for all of you