
Lawrence D. Peterson passed away on his 83rd birthday, June 18th, 2025, from a rare, fast growing, incurable thyroid cancer at the Minneapolis Veterans Hospital. His wife was by his side and his son nearby. Larry’s request, rather than a funeral, was that we gather for a picnic to share stories. This will be held at a later date and will be announced on this website. Ruth hopes to put the stories together into booklet form so that Larry’s 5 year old grandson will be able to know his “Grandpa Pete” as he gets older. At Ruth’s request, if you have a story and time to share it, please send an email to randl@bevcomm.net
Lawrence/Larry Peterson was born in Buffalo Center Iowa to Jerome and Bernice (Bye) Peterson on June 18, 1942. Larry was 100% Norwegian born in Iowa, or as he would say, “a true Iowegian”. This heritage led him into frequent “Ole and Lena” skits for various family and community celebrations. He would dress in costume, replicate a thick Norwegian accent, and regale the crowd with corny jokes. This would bring lots of laughter to the gatherings – and a little embarrassment to his then pre-teen son.
Larry’s life was defined by his humor, stories, jokes, and his ability to share levity with others.
He maintained life-long connections through things like an annual Christmas joke page he mailed to a list of hundreds. Among his stories are college pranks such as burying the biology lab skeleton to be discovered by the St Peter Sheriff and impersonating the Gustavus Adolphus College President to call off classes and avoid an unwanted test. There are nursing home stories of him, working as a nurses’ aid, going into residents rooms wearing metal bed pans on his feet and urinals hooked around his waist to get them to smile. There are also reflections of his days as an educator. Under the humor there was an innate teacher who loved helping his students succeed. Larry chose to be there for those who struggled. During college, Larry and friends planned to take a year off and work their way to Europe.
However, the “writing was on the wall” as he said for the Vietnam War. Larry graduated, volunteered for the Air Force, and became a pilot. He was shot down on his first mission of 100. “One down, 99 to go” he relayed. The story of that adventure was included in the book “Up Front in Vietnam” and an associated Readers Digest. He was shot down a second time before volunteering for the dangerous switch from fighter jets to Forward Air Control duty. The Vietnam experience became another defining part of his life. Some of those stories are more difficult to tell.
After returning Larry met his wife, Ruth, on the Pine Ridge Indian Reservation where she was a teacher, and he was a volunteer. Married in 1973, they had one son, Aaron, in 1981. During Aaron’s preschool years, they delivered Winnebago motor homes throughout North America memories as a family, and creating more stories.
Larry went back to college later in life to become an elementary special education teacher. He finished out his career as a special ed teacher in Minnesota Lake, MN. Outside of school, both before and after retirement, he mentored students with physical or mental disabilities or those with other home/life challenges. He brought new experiences, smiles, and fun when those things were lacking. Still there for those who struggled, still a source for laughter, and still creating more stories.
Larry is survived by his wife, Ruth, his son, Aaron, daughter-in-law, Paula, and grandson, Rory. He is also survived by many loved extended family members and many friends gathered over his lifetime. He was preceded in death by his parents, his sister Barb and his brother Richard.
We only have so many days to live this physical life we then become a memory in someone else’s mind. May your memories of Larry bring you smiles.
Our deepest sympathy to you, Ruth, Aaron & families! Every day Larry worked at Parkview Care Center he brought smiles to not only the residents but to the staff as well! We all loved working with Larry!! Blessed be his memory!
The family has my deepest sympathy.
Larry was an amazing man and He was amazing friend. I always enjoyed his stories. He often give me advice About everything. I enjoyed his humor and he was always such a caring man. I’m very grateful for knowing him and for him coming into our life when he volunteered for the mentor program, there was nobody that was ever matched as perfect as my son, Tony and Larry. And now they’re together. Rest in peace Larry you will deeply be missed.
Our sincerest condolences to Ruth,Aaron, Paula and Rory. Larry was a special person we were glad to have the pleasure of knowing in our lives. God bless his memory.
My condolences to Ruth and all his family. He always had a smile.
Rest in Peace Larry. Very Interesting Life Story! Thank you For Your Service.
As first cousins go he was the best! We often joked about two Norwegian Boys needing a German Girl to keep them in line. Ruth was his perfect match!
Sincere, Lowell and Mary
My Heartfelt Condolences to Ruthie, Aaron and family🙏🏼♥️ Larry was a Very Special Rice Lake Neighbor!! I am Very Sad we won’t have more time to visit together as Rice Lake Neighbors 😓
Oh Ruth and Aaron, I’m so sorry,sad and shocked to hear about Larry. I can’t believe this happened 2 weeks ago and we didn’t know. You know we Love you guys and feel like you are family! I bet Larry and Bill plus Danny and my folks are having a good time with lots of laughter. I am going to call you tomorrow!! Love and Hugs
Larry was an extraordinary individual person. He lived life to the fullest and with amazing zestitivity. He is missed by Swatha and Bodiddle, the dogs. May you rest peacefully dear Laar.
Loved the Larry stories my father , Dave Bye, would tell prayers and hugs to the family
The family has my deepest sympathy.
Larry was the most amazing gentleman i ever met… I always enjoyed his stories when he came to get my brother (Tony) for the mentor program and the jokes that he came up with and i am so thankful to had you in my life and Tony’s Life
RIP Larry 🙁 Gonna be miss by many.
Love you Gonna Miss you grandpa
Thinking of you Ruth and know that Larry is well again. It was a pleasure to meet this extended cousin and visit about relatives we were both acquainted with. Thank you for this. I can still see his smile.
Ruth I am so sorry to hear this.. I hope god gives you and your family peace ..
Larry was one heck of a guy. I also worked with him at the nursing home. He brought laughter and joy to everyone who knew him!!
Ruth I am so sorry reading of Larry’s passing …You and the family are in my thoughts and prayers
Where can we send flowers and cards
Larry made such a HUGE impact on my entire family’s lives. We are forever grateful to have had him as a part of our journey. Ruth, Aaron, Paula, and Rory our thoughts, love, and prayers are with you all. Larry was an amazing man and will be missed. We will continue to share his humor and wisdom with other.
I was extremely fortunate to have met, and then worked,(??)) with Larry (OLE to me) during our times at Minnesota Lake, later MREast. Always, always, a bright spot in my day seeing him down the hall, in the cafeteria, or to the bane of the administrators, TOGETHER! at staff meeetings. Always a free spirit, we got along, connected by fun, a questioning mind, a “bit” of definance at THE MAN, and the underlying reason MR. PETERSON, was there, THE KIDS well being! ALWAYS!. Although our duties were with different ages, and grade level students, we very seldom did not agree on pathways for them! Discovery, exploration, mental curiousity, were the pathways OLE always tried to instill! Although a difficult road, he wanted not just factual knowledge, but life lessons and skills to be the end result. WE OFTEN talked about the MARVELOUS world of living things surrounding us, and ways to let young people discover them, rather than DRILL them into minds at different states and interests.
Somehow Mr. Peterson’s experiences, outlook on life, and cornball humor, grabbed me deeply, and I realized that OLE was teaching me TOO! Life is more than saying I have this job and….! But we found joy and humor, just talking, a Swen and Ole joke, sharing family stories, drawing ATTENTION from “Educational” experts ( perhaps ?) but learned, you are strong because of who you are, and what you have experienced in life.
Larry is deeply missed in my corner of this world. I know the journey he has now departed on, and the way he lived and shared his time, has forever blessed mine. Ha det bra OLE
I second Mark’s eloquent comments. Larry was always a joy to see when I came to the MN Lake building. He was very innovative teaching his kids. I loved his take apart table that he used as a reward for his students. In later years when I would run into him at the store we would hang out in the aisle talking for a loooong time. Thanks for being in my life, Larry.
Sympathy and love to you Ruth. What an extraordinary soul! I had the pleasure of making Larry’s acquaintance while I was working at the Post Office, he touched so many lives, both of you have!
Mr. Peterson is and will always be one of the greatest people to enter my walk on this planet. He is a light of amazing strength and the world is now dimmer with him gone. I love Mr. Peterson for everything he represents and did. He was and is someone I could trust and turn too. There are no words I understand how to communicate his grace in my life. My love and condolences to Ruth, Aaron, and family. Please let me know what I can do or be there for.
Ruth, Aaron and family,
Larry was one of the finest teachers and nicest individuals I’ve had the honor to know. We shared a few heartaches and headaches but they were drowned out by the many, many side splitting laughs. His sense of humor was unique and delightful. Larry could transform a room. He had a unique way of reaching students. There was never a doubt where his heart was, his students were his top priority, always. He was a fierce advocate for a group that were unable to do so for themselves. He did it without fanfare, didn’t crave attention or demand credit for his good deeds. I’m a better person for having had Larry in my life, as brief as it may have been. Blessings to the family, thank you for sharing him with us.
thank you to all of you for posting. it has meant a lot to myself, aaron, paula, and rory.
we have finally set a date and time for the gathering that larry had requested. we will meet at pihl’s park on sunday, august 10th from noon to three for a picnic lunch and time to simply socialize and share stories with friends and family. there will be a short military segment at noon followed by lunch. please feel free to join us.
Oh Ruth, I am so very sorry to see the passing of Larry. My heart aches for you and your family. My sincere sympathies and prayers for comfort and guidance for the coming days. Hugs, love Susie Monson
Larry’s voice and his warm smiles are the two things I’ll always remember. Running with Aaron in HS I always knew if Larry was there cheering for us. He was always so supportive and caring.
My sincere condolences and sympathy to you Ruth, Aaron and the extended family. Larry was a really great person and fun to be around. Good memories to share with loved ones about Larry and times together. He was definitely an interesting person to spend time with. Sending hugs to you and yours. Blessings to you all and thanks for sharing him with us.
to those who have responded after our last thank you. it warms our hearts to read the responses. tim, yes, his voice at the cross country meets definitely carried and would urge you and teammates on. lori and susie, thank you. he will definitely be missed. thanks again to all.
Ruth, my prayers to you and your family for the loss of Larry. I got to know Larry a little more when we crossed paths doing volunteer work. He was truly a caring person….wish I had known him better. Had planned to be at the picnic, but my body is telling me otherwise. God bless.